Mike,
It all comes down to position sizing. You need to find that level that you can brush off the losses. It doesn't matter if it's 5, 10, 20, or 100 (or more) dollars. Find that HONEST level. Next, you need to make sure that your max loss is an honest amount as well. So, allow yourself 3 losses in a row all getting stopped out and add it up. If that means that 30 dollars is your max loss of the day, so be it! Once you start following your rules, you can slowly start to increase your share size.
I lost a LOT of money when I first started trading (over 30,000). Once I got serious about educating myself and becoming a better trader (and no longer worrying about making money), I started to actually consistently make money. After completing my 3 months or so in SIM (or whatever it takes to where you are green at the end of the month), I switched back to real.
I started trading with 25, 50, and 100 shares depending on the stock. I allowed myself only to lose 10 dollars per trade. If I hit 30 dollars loss on the day, I was done. Slowly but surely, I stopped having max loss days. Then, I started having green weeks. Every week I finished green, I increased my share size by 25 percent. After 4 months of this, I found my level I felt comfortable trading (my max share size is 2000 shares w/200 dollars max risk per trade. I don't often take trades with this many shares, but I will allow myself to do it if I get a really good setup and entry).
I haven't had a red week in 5 months. I haven't had a red day in 24 days. But, whats more important than the consistent green is HONORING your rules regarding loss. I could have 100 days green in a row and it wouldn't matter if I were to allow myself to lose 10,000 dollars because I let something run against me indefinitely.
So, find your comfortable loss. Stick with it. Be a robot. Stop thinking things will turn around. You will never be right 100 percent of the time. It's statistically impossible.