Thanks!
There are so many things that came together to make it happen, it's hard to choose only one.
I would say that the biggest help was switching from shares to options, as it kinda forced me to take more risk (you can't take less than 1 option contract haha).
I think one of the biggest problem I had was that I would take very little risk and make very little profit, then I would be frustrated to make so little money on the biggest opportunities, and I would then manage to have hulk days on bad opportunities because of that built up frustration. So when I switched to options, I started making more profits because of the bigger minimal risk involved, and that fixed something on the psychological level. I got confident I could make money, finally, and losing wasn't as big of a problem as before because I would be able to recover faster. That kinda tipped the balance in my favor (because I already had a good win/loss ratio, its just that my wins were too small compared to my losses) and gave me confidence. And it all went better from there. There was definitely a big psychological thing I had to get over about risking money. I used to be afraid to risk 20$, now I don't mind 200$. I hope that makes sense.
But simplifying my tools and watching only 1 stock was probably as important.