Agree and i think fear and hesitancy doesn't go away for those trades that succeed, It just morphs into more manageable chunks.

Chapter 3 W How we envision the market and stocks move is unique for every trader. Coming into trading it’s idea to realize that what you want the market to do and what actually does is something that your mind needs to separated A The goal is to have realistic expectations of the outcome of any trade A Finding the way to fix your expectations can be a trail with many paths. Note where you’re the most deficient in what you trade and what actually happens. For me my expectations that a stock will not move more than a 1 minute candle before bouncing. What I’m trying to do about it now is 1. Not start looking at the one minute right away instead look at the 5 minute 2. Try to stick to my stop even though I might not make as much or go red 3. Revaluate in about a month.